You know you’re a single Mom when…

  • The thought of adult interaction makes you salivate.
  • You can go four days without a shower and no one in your house notices or cares.
  • There are smiles when you serve peanut-butter (or in our house, sunflower-seed butter) and jelly for the third night in a row.
  • The only time the other side of your bed gets used is when your kids climb in.
  • Your son takes your hand or when your daughter says you look beautiful, can fill your heart in ways you didn’t think possible.
  • You have a running tally in your head of how often the “fatherless” are mentioned in the Bible.
  • You think you’re forgetting something if you’re not carrying at least two bags, have a toddler on your hip, a child by the hand, keys in your pocket, camera around your neck, and talking on the phone.
  • Your Friday nights are now filled with exciting things like paying bills and folding laundry.
  • You continually surprise yourself by how big of a mess you are willing to put up with just for a few moments of peace.
  • What you consider a massage is letting your son roll his hot-wheels up and down your back.
  • Your new heroes are Lois and Eunice (2 Timothy 1:5)
  • You have never had so many strangers ask you if you need help.
  • The crayon artwork on your walls is there for months because a) you just noticed it, and b) there are about 100 things more important on your to-do list.
  • You are more thankful for your kids than ever before.

*These were written a little tongue-in-cheek, so please take them that way.  Also, I fully realize that most of these could apply to any mom…I just find them more intense as a single mom.

2 thoughts on “You know you’re a single Mom when…

  1. Oh, thank you, girl! I need to read these tonight!!
    Some made me laugh, some where just so true…..

    Just another reminder, that I am not the only one who tucks kids in after yet another talk about missing Daddy and leave their room crying after they have fallen asleep.

    Thanks again for the JoySmile!
    HUGS!!

  2. You put a smile on my face today. 🙂 I love how you are taking the changes in your life and making the best of them. It is a continual challenge and encouragement to me.

    Love you!

    Becca

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